Bet you were hoping that I was going to offer some magic pill that you could take to make it all better, well sorry, it doesnt work like that. The thing is, there is nothing that can stop you from suffering from depression, except you. You might not like this much, but its the truth, and thats why Im going to tell it to you anyway.
Your depression isnt caused by the partner you have or the one you dont have or the one that left you. It isnt your job or your kids or ...