You are out from a long time relationship; no
matter if she left you or you have left her. You
are free now to do what you want and to meet who
you want, when you want.
After a while you feel that you are ready to get
in a new relationship. You even have met a nice
girl who looks like she is interested in you.
Slowly, things are getting more serious and you
get to know better your new partner.
But something is bothering you, and you don’t
know what it is. Than you realize that she is not
doing things like you were used to be done, she
is not doing things like your ex used to make
them (it’s not about all things, but those you
loved at your ex).
Last days I have met a friend of mine I haven’t
seen for a long time. It was a surprise for me
when a nice girl comes to us, and he has
introduced her like his girlfriend. I didn’t know
that he has broken up with his ex, which is a
very sexy, feminine woman.
After, his new girlfriend left, I asked my friend
what happened with his ex and how things are
going in his new relationship. He told me that he’
s in this new relationship for over 7 months, his
girlfriend is a nice woman and he has nothing to
blame her.
But, something is missing. He was used to be with
a very feminine woman, which enjoyed her woman
qualities all the time. He confessed me that it
is very difficult for him to get used to live
without some things which he has experimented
before and he knows that does exist.
He also told me something that made me smile: ‘If
I could take my ex qualities and put them next to
my new partner’s qualities I would make the
perfect women for me.’ 🙂
But how good it could be if we would be able to
make the perfect woman? Not so good as we all
think, believe me. I say it all the time,
perfection is boring.
However, a person after a breakup has to think
mostly to the reasons for the breakup with his ex
and not to her qualities. I am sure that you have
very good reasons to break up with a person which
who you have spend years together.
Relief you from your past relationship and let
your new girlfriend make you happy in her own way.
Learn to enjoy your girl’s qualities and
personality and don’t make your ex girlfriend’s
qualities a problem for your present or future
relationships.
